SUPPORT NETWORK

You are
 not alone.

EBV-HLH is often fatal. If you have lost someone to it, we know how isolating that grief can be — because very few people outside this experience will understand what happened, or why. This community is for you.

We are a fundraising charity, not a clinical service. If you are in crisis or need urgent medical advice, please contact your hospital team or call 999.

WHO WE SUPPORT

This space is for everyone touched by EBV-HLH

I am Tom's mum and I set up this Charity after losing him. I know first-hand how isolating this grief can be. EBV-HLH moves fast and it is rarely understood by those around you — friends, wider family, sometimes even the medical team. We want to connect you with people who truly get it.

Those who have lost someone

EBV-HLH is often fatal. The grief that follows is made harder by the fact that so few people have heard of it — which can make it almost impossible to explain, and very isolating to carry. We are building a community of families who understand this particular loss from the inside.

Understanding why

When you lose someone to EBV-HLH, you are often left with as many questions as you are grief. Why did their immune system react this way? Why wasn't it caught sooner? Why had nobody heard of it? We can't answer all of those questions — but we can point you towards the research that is trying to, and connect you with others who are asking the same things.

Join a community that understands what you're going through

I am Tom's mum and I set up this Charity after losing him. I know first-hand how isolating this grief can be. EBV-HLH moves fast and it is rarely understood by those around you — friends, wider family, sometimes even the medical team. We want to connect you with people who truly get it.

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Moderated and safe, not public-facing

Free

Always — no cost
to join or participate

For bereaved families

This space centres those who have lost someone to EBV-HLH

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We are a fundraising charity, not a clinical service. Nothing here constitutes medical advice. In an emergency, call 999.

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